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42 Gifts for Every Type of Host

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Whether you’re headed to a dinner party at a friend’s house or departing for a long overdue visit to see family, it’s always hard to figure out what gift to give a host. You’ll want to present something more unexpected than a bottle of wine but not so atypical that it risks living in that closet with all the other stuff they never use. And it shouldn’t be too unwieldy or fragile to travel, whether you’re taking a quick subway ride or a cross-country flight. To help you find the right gift for whatever host you might be thanking, I’ve rounded up 42 practical, unexpected, and all-around highly giftable ideas — some of which are expert-recommended, too. They include a splurge-y sous vide, spicy pickled peppers, and a range of price points in between, any of which would definitely be appreciated (even if your hosts insist you needn’t bring anything but yourself). For even more gifts for everyone else on your list, check out our holiday-gift-guide hub.

Update on December 9, 2024: Updated prices and checked stock for all products.

Gifts $25 and under

For the host you just met

You really can’t go wrong with a nice bottle of olive oil. “It’s at once undeniably useful and can feel really thoughtful if you seek out the best,” says recipe developer and writer Vilda Gonzalez. This season, she’ll be giving Séka Hills’ Olio Nuovo.

For the host who makes everything from scratch

Former Vogue fashion director Tonne Goodman, who is now the magazine’s sustainability editor, told us about this 20-ounce bucket of sea salt from Maldon that would make a delightful and highly useful gift for the consummate cook. “I gave it to my brother-in-law, who is a wonderful cook, and he laughed and loved it,” she said.

For the host who hosts a lot

Here’s a host gift that will actually come in handy while hosting. Goodman also told us about these cotton cocktail napkins that conveniently come in a roll. She discovered them in Paris and has been re-ordering them ever since. “They’re the simplest solution to the tedious task of serving hors d’oeuvres,” she says, and “indispensable during the holidays.”

For the festive host

Caspari makes some really fun cocktail napkins in prints like Van Gogh irises, Matisse florals, and wassailing wild animals that your party-loving host will appreciate.

For the host known for their charcuterie boards

Matiz Piparra Peppers
$10
$10

These small, spicy peppers are a favorite of Laila Gohar, a food artist and the founder of Gohar World: “They’re spicy and briny and add a nice bite to a lot of dishes,” she says. “I just like to nibble on them plain, too.”

For the host with a fully stocked bar

$20

According to writer Rachel Khong, this is the best citrus juicer on the market. Made of stainless steel, it doesn’t rust (unlike others that are made from aluminum), extracts a lot of liquid, and feels good in your hands — all important features for the amateur mixologist.

For the host who collects cookbooks

A classic or vintage cookbook like Edna Lewis’s The Taste of Country Cooking would be a nice addition to their library. According to Trinity Mouzon Wofford, founder of wellness company Golde, it “reads more like an enchanted diary than a cookbook.”

For the host with a crafty kid

Remembering to bring a little something for the host’s offspring will score you a lot of points. The host-in-training will squeal with delight at this mini bead kit from Super Smalls that makes one necklace or two bracelets.

For the host who doesn’t have a dishwasher

I gave up traditional sponges for these highly effective sparkly dish scrubbers, which are a popular gift among Korean ajummas (a.k.a. aunties). Not only are they fun to look at, they’re reusable, dry fast, and don’t get grimy or germ-y.

For the host who likes a candle-lit dinner scene

From $13 for 2

Beeswax tapers are an elegant, no-scent way to instantly up the mood at the dining table, and these from Bluecorn are great for bulk-buying and happen to be expert-approved, too.

For the host who likes a multi-use candlestick

Pair the tapers with this ceramic holder that I recently received as a housewarming gift. I love the speckled glaze and the fact that the base acts as a receptacle for matchbooks — or other tchotchkes.

For the host who likes to burn incense

Instead of getting them traditional incense sticks, try this matchbook of burning papers that writer Young Kim told me about. You simply tear off a sheet, fold it like an accordion, and light it up.

For the host who loves a trompe l’oeil

These fruit-shaped candles made from soy wax also happen to be scentless — and would look delightful among a full banquet spread of real desserts and other trifles.

For the host who’s always chasing new flavors

This salt that Antoni Porowski swears by is infused with fermented garlic that will elevate any dish with its “sweet and aromatic” umami flavor.

Gifts $50 and under

For the host who loves an alternative cooking oil

This set of cooking and finishing oils from West Bourne is a great starter pack for introducing your host to the benefits of using avocado oil, a neutral, high-heat alternative to olive oil. It’s what Jean Lin, founder of design gallery Colony and author of What We Keep, gives to all her hosts.

For the host who lives for tomato season

Let them rep their favorite fruit with this hand-printed cap that would be perfect for mornings at the farmers’ market.

For the host whose garden is their pride and joy

These scissors from Japanese brand Niwaki are made with fluorine-coated blades and resin-molded handles and can be used to cut flower stems as well as some woody branches. They’re also great in the kitchen.

For the host who always has fresh flowers

This pomegranate-shaped bud vase from Brooklyn home store Porta would look stunning with a single bud or two.

For the host who constantly worries about underseasoning

These speckled terracotta pinch pots are handmade in Italy and the perfect size to hold salt and pepper.

For the host who never sits down

Once the guests are gone and they finally have a chance to put their feet up, they’ll appreciate this microwaveable alternative to a hot water bottle that’s weighted with all-natural, biodegradable clay.

For the host who can’t stop playing word games

Photo: A24

If they’ve exhausted every digital crossword game out there, they’ll enjoy this book of TV-themed crosswords from A24 that goes from easy to hard across both puzzle difficulty and TV knowledge.

For the host who loves a good scent

A bottle of fancy hand soap is always a good idea. As Joanna Goddard, founder of the newsletter Big Salad, puts it, “It’s the same price as bodega flowers, so I can rationalize buying it for friends.” Plus “it smells SO GOOD.”

For the host who keeps a pristine kitchen

I use this mini wooden dustpan-and-brush set daily to clean up coffee grounds from my countertop, but it could also be used for gathering bread crumbs and other leftover food debris after a dinner party.

For the host who never lets your glass go empty

These brightly colored wool coasters “both absorb and evaporate moisture and thus stay in perfect condition no matter how many drinks sweat on them,” says Strategist writer Emma Wartzman.

For the host who’s cutting their plastic habit

If they’d rather not reuse plastic takeout containers to store leftovers, consider this set of glass food containers from Pyrex that I’ve owned for over ten years and have given as a housewarming gift multiple times.

For the host who’s cutting their nonstick habit

Joyce Chen Carbon-Steel Wok
$29
$29

Carbon-steel pans like our best-in-class wok pick develop a nonstick patina over time, so they can sear, sauté, and steam without worrying about the bad stuff.

For the host who always throws movie night

Here’s an old-timey popcorn maker they can use to prepare snacks so that streaming on Netflix feels more like a real theatergoing experience. (If you really want to impress, throw in some of the seasoning author Jenny Han swears by for movie-style popcorn at home.)

Gifts $100 and under

For the host with an elaborate after-dinner coffee service

This set of cheery Memphis-inspired espresso cups would add an extra kick of energy to after-dinner conversation.

For the host who crafts a mean cheese board

You can never have too many serving vessels, and this trio of cutting boards made from walnut and beech are perfect for cheese and charcuterie. “They are modular so are super-functional and great for presentation,” says Uprise Art founder Tze Chun, who received them as a gift and now gives them to everyone.

For the host who’s a Keurig proselitizer

Free Rein’s collaboration with Stetson includes small-batch coffee — available in pods or grounds — slow-roasted in Texas and a big, brawny mug that’s perfect for living out your range-life fantasies.

For the host who wants to cut down on coffee

The caffeine in matcha is released more slowly than in coffee, giving the drinker a more consistent boost of energy. This starter kit has everything they need to make matcha at home.

For the host who always makes an epic salad

In case they don’t already have a giant wooden salad bowl, this 14-inch one from Crate & Barrel comes recommended by three chefs and cookbook authors.

For the competitive host who doesn’t like board games

Miami Heat player Jimmy Butler loves playing dominoes, and this is one of his favorite sets.

For the stylish host

Aprons from Hedley and Bennett are a chef favorite for their durability and lifetime guarantee. They also come in a range of trendy colorways and patterns, at least one of which, like this handsome midnight-blue one, will be sure to please.

For the host who loves entertaining al fresco

From the makers of our favorite portable fire pit is this petite tabletop version that’s perfect for, among other things, roasting marshmallows for some non-camping s’mores action.

For the host with the hot tub

This is one of the fluffiest, most comfortable bathrobes out there, according to Strategist writer Ambar Pardilla, who goes “straight from wearing it to lotioning up without needing a towel to wipe away leftover water.” We imagine it would make a fantastic après-hot-tub robe as well.

For the host who names all their houseplants

Haws’s copper watering cans are as stunning as they are functional, and this one is the perfect size to keep their many indoor plants hydrated.

For the gadget-happy host

A sous vide machine, like this compact version of Anova’s best-selling counterpart, will level up your host’s culinary adventures.

Gifts $150 and up

For the host who always serves a casserole

Falcon’s enamelware bake set includes five different pieces and can be used for everything from roasting whole poultry to baking casseroles.

For the host who finds beauty in imperfection

If they can’t stand to part with a beloved broken dish, this kintsugi kit comes with everything that’s required to repair it using the traditional Japanese art.

For the host whose couch you never want to leave

They’re certainly pricey, but ABC Home’s mohair-and-wool throws are some of the coziest blankets out there and come in a dozen gorgeous, unexpected colors, including hot pink and citronella.

For the host who’s house you never want to leave

If you’re going to be an overnight guest (or stay longer), your host might appreciate a new set of sheets, like the ones that Annie Meyers-Shyer, Nancy Meyers’s daughter, has been buying for years.

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42 Gifts for Every Type of Host