would i do it again?
Jan. 27, 2025
My Pubic Hair Laser Regret All that’s left of my pubic hair is a tiny little square. It’s like a Charlie Chaplin mustache.
Why Did I Stop Loving My Cat When I Had a Baby? A freelance writer examines a fraught period of time following the birth of her child.
the money game
Oct. 25, 2023
Confessions of a Middle-Class Founder During the boom times, I launched a start-up so I could become rich. Years later, I’m still looking for my exit.
at home in asian america
Sept. 29, 2022
Confessions of an Asian Diversity Hire “It’s not like they put a sign on your desk that reads ‘Diversity Hire.’ You just know.”
the money game
Jan. 5, 2022
Striking It Rich in the Meme-Coin Casino “I think this is all stupid and absurd. But I’m not going to complain.”
I’m Rich Now. It’s Weird. Confessions of an overnight tech millionaire.
How My Life Changed (and Didn’t) After Writing a Book You can have all the second acts you want, but you’ll always be yourself.
An Accordion Toilet Plunger Will Change Your Life Those wooden ones with a rubber suction cup are amateur hour.
first person
Mar. 9, 2020
Cheating on My Parents My own abusive mother and father were being replaced, and they knew it.
marriage: an investigation
Apr. 5, 2019
My Husband Cheated, and an Infinity Hot Tub in St. Lucia Wasn’t Going to Fix It He’d decided the affair was an ill-conceived midlife Rumspringa. And now, here we were in St. Lucia: This was my reward.
marriage: an investigation
Apr. 3, 2019
5 Perspectives on What Kids Do to a Marriage “Little by little, this forced, idealized version of our marriage, performed for the benefit of our child, became the norm.”
marriage: an investigation
Apr. 2, 2019
When Your Wife Becomes an Anti-Vaxxer Everything was fine until Helen invited Jenny McCarthy into our marriage.
marriage: an investigation
Apr. 1, 2019
When You Realize You’ll Never Love Him as Much As He Loves You “I only want good things for him — he’s a good human being — and that includes the relationship he wants. I just don’t know how to give it to him.”
living with money
Mar. 25, 2019
The Slippery Slope of Dating Someone With a Trust Fund “It was great to eat at nice restaurants and go on cool trips, but it was also scary and weird.”
secret side hustles
Mar. 22, 2019
‘It’s Like I’m a Naked Shrink’ What it’s like to have a side gig as a tantric masseuse.
secret side hustles
Mar. 20, 2019
The Nurse Who Sells Her Own Breast Milk Online “Mothers who have an organic or vegan diet will charge up to $3 per ounce, but I’m just not that sort of woman.”
secret side hustles
Mar. 13, 2019
The Publicist Who Dreads Getting Caught for Her Illegal Airbnb “I see this money as part of my income, and I depend on it. If we got found out, I’d have trouble paying my bills.”
college admissions scandal
Mar. 12, 2019
living with money
Mar. 12, 2019
My Deep, Burning Class Rage I’m angry at everyone who’s had it easy.
secret side hustles
Mar. 6, 2019
The Health Writer Who Moonlights As a Dominatrix “There are some dominatrixes who make bank, but I’m on the lazier side: $300 is pretty standard for an hour, and there’s no overhead.”
living with money
Mar. 6, 2019
The Year I Destroyed My Finances I asked myself, who made these rules and what’s really going to happen if I don’t follow them?
secret side hustles
Feb. 28, 2019
The Music Teacher Who Travels the World As a Mystery Shopper “My boss doesn’t know I do this, and I’ve had a couple of close calls.”
living with money
Nov. 29, 2018
What Happened When I Unwittingly Married Into Money “It’s such a stark contrast to my immigrant family upbringing, when I was always keenly aware that I was the ‘poorest’ of my friends.”
living with money
June 15, 2018
I’m 34 and My Parents Still Give Me a Clothing Allowance It was always important to my mom that we look our best.
I Was Convinced I Might Kill My Child What it’s like to have postpartum psychosis.
married women
May 9, 2018
I Went on Ashley Madison to Try to Have an Affair I thought an affair could help me escape my marriage. I was wrong.
living with money
Apr. 30, 2018
What It’s Really Like to Have a Trust Fund At first, I felt like I was set for life — but I didn’t realize just how expensive life is.
sex negative
Apr. 20, 2018
Worst Sex Ever: The Tale of the Rogue Tampon “I had a decision to make and I needed to make it pretty quickly: When was the moment to run to the bathroom?”
sex negative
Mar. 16, 2018
The Time I Almost Lost My Job for Having Sex at Work “I was really into it — the little hint of danger was exciting. That’s when I heard the front door open.”
women of the world
Mar. 8, 2018
What It’s Like To Be A Daughter in China (When Everyone Prefers A Son) “My country is a very big, complicated place with a growing economy and some very backward thinking.“
how to raise a boy
Mar. 7, 2018
How I Raised 5 Sons To Respect Women There’s a testosterone overload in my house.
how to raise a boy
Mar. 7, 2018
What Happened After My College Found Me Guilty of Sexual Misconduct “The experience was an eye-opener. It taught me not to mess with women anymore.”
science of us
Feb. 1, 2018
My Life With Endometriosis “A lot of doctors dismiss endo as premenstrual pain. It really makes you feel crazy.”
the best gift i ever got
Dec. 5, 2017
sex negative
Dec. 5, 2017
The Worst Rim-Job Story Ever “I was frozen in place, trying my best not to vomit.”
Why I Haven’t Said #MeToo I didn’t have a choice then, but I have one now.
coping diaries
Oct. 24, 2017
The Freelance Writer Using LSD for Depression “Three days a week, I take 4.5 micrograms before breakfast.”
my terrible boss
Sept. 8, 2017
My Terrible Boss Made Me Call a Sandwich Shop to Complain About Cubed Chicken He told me, “You need to call their corporate office and make sure they do cubed rather than sliced.”
my terrible boss
Sept. 1, 2017
my terrible boss
Aug. 25, 2017
My Terrible Boss Showed Me a Dick Pic and Got Promoted “I thought that was something that only happened on Mad Men .”
charlottesville
Aug. 18, 2017
I Lost My Son to the Alt-Right Movement A mother reflects on her son’s descent into hate.
equal pay day
Apr. 4, 2017
I Quit My Job Over Equal Pay. Here’s What I Learned “It is possible to be paid what you’re worth. You just have to stop settling.”
having it all
Aug. 5, 2016
Working Full-Time When Your Child Is Disabled What it’s like juggling therapists, doctor’s appointments, a second kid, and a full-time fashion job.
How One Woman Was Able To Cope With Chronic Pain From Fibromyalgia What’s it like when doctors don’t believe you and you live with chronic pain.
Guys: We Can See You Liking Sexy Instagram Pics I’d never checked out Instagram’s Following tab — until a friend told me that her boyfriend, and many of our mutual male friends, were constantly liking the swimsuit photos of random 17-year-old girls.
sex on campus
Oct. 21, 2015
A Big Ten Basketball Player on Hooking Up 5 Times a Week “It gets old sometimes, sleeping with people and having it not mean anything.”
true stories
Oct. 12, 2015
I Was Diagnosed With Breast Cancer and Decided to Do Nothing More and more women are opting out of mastectomies when diagnosed with DCIS.
war stories
Mar. 20, 2015
I Was an ISIS Hostage for 5 Months “They would come into our rooms and do things you can’t even imagine.”
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