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    Ask Polly: How Can I Stay Happy When Tragedy Surrounds Me?Remember, WINTER IS COMING for all of us.
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    Ask Polly: How Can I Forgive My Husband?You are both flawed. Accept it and embrace it.
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    Ask Polly: How Do I Stay Sane With My Crazy Mom?Just accept that she’s going to be crazy.
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    Ask Polly: Help, I Feel Like I’m Drowning!The challenge here is to show yourself how strong you are.
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    Ask Polly: I’m 25 and My Life Has Been Great, So Why Don’t I Have a Passion?Because passion takes hard work, and you’ve had it easy.
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    Ask Polly: Can I Cut Off My Mother-in-Law?Treating her like an enemy will only make you miserable.
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    Ask Polly: Am I Settling?Well: Can you defend your relationship in a court of law?
  8. Ask Polly: How Do I Deal With Losing Friends?Start by accepting that different people are different.
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    Ask Polly: Should I Have a Baby or Establish My Career First?Choose both. Choose the career AND choose the baby.
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    Ask Polly: Can I Trust My Judgment About Men?Being wrong sometimes doesn’t make you more prone to bad choices.
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    Ask Polly: Can I Be Friends With My Ex Now That I’m Married?Yes, but ask yourself why you want to be.
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    Ask Polly: Is My Boyfriend Bad News?For this week’s answer, we take a trip to Deadwood.
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    Ask Polly: Why Doesn’t My Family Understand Me?Spending time with your family means compromising. EVERYONE compromises.
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    Ask Polly: Why Are the Guys I Date So Boring?Think of it this way: They’re potatoes, and you’re a radish.
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    Ask Polly: How Do I Act Normal?“Normal” is just the language spoken by socially smooth UltraNormals and Sort-of-Normals and Abnormals alike.
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    Ask Polly: How Do I Stop Being So Obsessed With My Boyfriend?This column includes a special excerpt from the young Polly’s diaries!
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    Ask Polly: Is Total Honesty Possible in a Relationship?Not the way your boyfriend’s doing it.
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    Ask Polly: How Do I Stop Hating Myself?Stop online dating, for one thing.
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    Ask Polly: Should I Marry My Boyfriend Even Though He Doesn’t Want Sex?This is his problem, not yours.
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    Ask Polly: Why Did My Friends Ditch Me?Two people lying to each other isn’t a friendship, it’s a Raymond Carver story.
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    Ask Polly: Did I Waste My College Years?In the immortal words of Fleetwood Mac, you don’t know what it means to win.
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    Ask Polly: Can I Kick My Mom Out of My Life?You could, but not while you’re pregnant and feeling crazy.
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    Ask Polly: Why Are Other People Always Messing Up?Because you see the world in black and white.
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    Ask Polly: ‘Holly Craps, Who the Hell He Thinks He Is?’The dating problems truly are the same everywhere.
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    Ask Polly: How Do I Deal With My Crazy Family Over the Holidays?Forgive those damaged freaks.
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    Ask Polly: Are You Sure?HELL, NO. I am not sure. I am never sure.
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    Ask Polly: How Do I Turn Off My Feelings?Don’t do that — just put away your jaunty seductress persona.
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    Ask Polly: Am I Being Too Paranoid?Don’t be afraid to ask questions.
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    Ask Polly: How Do I Stop Being Such a Jerk?Stop lying to avoid seeming weak.
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    Ask Polly: Should I Live Alone So I Can Act Weird and Not Feel Ashamed?Nah.
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    Ask Polly: How Do I Let Go When I Thought He Was ‘The One’?Don’t let yourself get cropped out of the picture.
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    Ask Polly: How Do I Make a Living As an Artist?First, you have to make being an artist your religion. Next, get a job.
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    Ask Polly: Will My Semi-Available Boyfriend Ever Change?Ditch the bobblehead and let yourself feel.
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    Ask Polly: What If I Never Find Love?You have to love the process, because that’s all there is.
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    Ask Polly: Will Moving to a Different City Make My Family Happy?The world is your oyster — sort of.
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    Ask Polly: Would He Love Me If I Were Prettier, Skinnier, and Sweeter?You just summed up exactly why overachieving women find themselves tangled up with aimless guys.
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    Ask Polly: How Do I Get My Husband to Act Like a Man?If you don’t want to wear the pants, then take the pants off.
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    Ask Polly: Why Have All My Friends Disappeared?Because you act like they’re your enemies.
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    Ask Polly: Do I Have to Lose Weight to Find Love?You are not looking for someone who loves you for the sum of your quantifiable qualities.
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    Ask Polly: My Friend Lost Weight and Now I Want Him. Am I Shallow?Don’t let a pop-culture fairy tale cloud your vision.
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    Go Ask Polly Anything at Reddit She has all the answers.
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    Ask Polly: How Do I Get Over the Co-worker I Slept With?Stop looking for intrigue and settling for moody-dude leftovers.
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    Ask Polly: Aging Is Scary, and Life Is a Struggle. Why Keep Going?It’s not actually so bad. It just looks that way when you’re young.
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    Ask Polly: I Hate My Job and Feel Like a Fraud. What Should I Do?If you want to be happy, stop trying to know everything.
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    Ask Polly: Why Don’t the Men I Date Ever Truly Love Me?You don’t cherish yourself, so you put up with men who don’t either.
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    Ask Polly: How Am I Supposed to Make Friends in My Late 20s?Aim low and open your heart.